{"id":521,"date":"2020-10-08T02:54:14","date_gmt":"2020-10-08T02:54:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/forsexualintellectuals.com\/?p=521"},"modified":"2020-10-09T02:18:40","modified_gmt":"2020-10-09T02:18:40","slug":"sex-talk-12-expressing-desires-cravings","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/forsexualintellectuals.com\/index.php\/2020\/10\/08\/sex-talk-12-expressing-desires-cravings\/","title":{"rendered":"Sex talk 12 &#8211; Expressing Desires &amp; Cravings"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Sex Talk Pt. 12 - Expressing Your Cravings &amp; Desires\" width=\"525\" height=\"295\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/ktyk5omCbCg?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>We all have cravings and desires. I&#8217;m not only talking about cake and ice cream either. Your partner may have amazing tongue skills and more. They may know your body well too. But if you&#8217;re not expressing your cravings, the things you desire, then it will be challenging to get them fulfilled. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Knowing what you want is hard enough. Then comes the inner debate about expressing or not expressing those things to your partner. You may think that what you&#8217;re craving is too much for your partner. Or perhaps its something small, but too wild for your partner&#8217;s taste. If you&#8217;re leaving it to chance, or hoping your parner is Professor X, there&#8217;s a low probability of you getting what you want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So how do you get what you want? How do you get your cravings fulfilled? By expressing them. Which can be scary and difficult. However, often, if you don&#8217;t ask, you won&#8217;t know. It also means that if you don&#8217;t express, you won&#8217;t receive. Embracing your desires, expressing your cravings, and empowering yourself can all be synonyms. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Speaking up is powerful. Asking for what you want isn&#8217;t wrong. I think we should embrace it. I think our partners should too. I think more of us should speak to our partners about what we want and crave. I think if we did, it would make things easier, and may even let your partner learn more about you and the kinks you&#8217;re into. Pushing away your desires, pocketing your cravings, only stops you from gaining maximum satisfaction. 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